I kinda believe that life is full of choices, we choose what to do, some of us are cautious with the choices we make and hold ourselves responsible for the outcomes - some of us dont,  They simply need someone to blame it all on. I guess even actions are so very much controlled  by the options a person has - We at all times maybe consciously or unconsciously weigh the  choices we have and choose to do what we hold the closest to our hearts. I kinda like to use this philosophy of mine to use it as a backdoor to read a persons mind - though I may not be right always, but ones actions, the choices the person makes, make it so obvious as to how much something which could be as minimal as a teeny weenie gift to a friendship means to that person. Am I totally off the mark? or u think likewise??

- Jeelz